Thank you for sharing your experiences, Charlotte! I often wish I could go back in time and tell my younger self that it is okay and normal to have body hair, and save myself from so much discomfort and shame.
I'm happy to hear that you are able to do what makes you feel comfortable after being with women who shave some/ none of those areas. It is always liberating for me to see other women rock body hair in a culture that hates body hair on women.